Personal Traits

There are some traits I mobilize they are also my failinges that I do not like about myself, I am not able to change them completely because they make me different from early(a)s and also defined who I am. However, I am trying to mitigate myself day by day to adapt, model, and communicate with others and to limit effects of these traits in my performances. These traits are trying to make anything as much perfect as I want, Judging a person by external appearances and lack of self-control.Firstly, I want anything has done as much perfect as possible, it is may be good because I can gain a lot of good feedbacks or good results but it also causes a lot of troubles for not only myself but also others. Since I conduct too much so I tend to collect other works therefore, I usually work under pressure, feeling submerge and depressed when the result went bad. Moreover, I usually work in team, past I clear stressful because of my requirements. That leads some inessential discussi ons and arguments.Hence, to make better this weakness I think I should truth in there contributions by instead of do or try to fix anything by myself, I can discuss and give some recommendations for others and lets them finished in their deliver ways. As the result, I can reduce the volume of my tasks, repress unnecessary arguments, have more time and wide views to check and evaluate concluding performances. Secondly, I tend to Judge a new person establish on their external appearances, it can prevent me from making true friends and is misleading.To avoid these mistakes, firstly, I should spend more time to know new population because different people have efferent life styles, backgrounds and believes which their appearances cannot show. Secondly, I should instigate myself some mistakes that I already have because mistakes are lessons. Hence, keep in mind these lessons will help me give expectations and behavior to others in enamor levels. Finally, I think self-control is an important point which I should improve because I communicate ad interact with others every day and time.Therefore, my bearing and behavior will directly affect others Judgments about myself. When I was in a first workup at university, it was hard to make appropriate responds when I was angry. This leaded to lost friendships and stress feeling for me. To improve my self-control, I should remark and find some signals which appear before I cannot control myself, for fount high temperature, or get wet at my hands. Moreover, I think that keep calm- silent in a moment before beginning or continuing a discussion or argument is a good way, because I have time to think carefully and refurbish my mind.This helps me o avoid letting my emotion cover my opinions and lead my actions. In conclusion, to have a happier life by reducing stress and work under pressure, I should not try to finish anything perfectly as I want, but I can ask for helps and be heart-to-heart minded. Moreover, to av oid and limit mistakes caused from my Judgments which base on other external appearances, I should spend more time to Finally, to improve my self-control, it is better to recognize and remember signals occurred when I am getting angry, and keep calm will create time for me to think carefully about my reactions.